Silver Anniversary May Day

Well it is 25 years to the day that I first came out to another human being (I told the family dog eariler, knowing that Bogie could keep a secret). At this point, I have been out for over half my life (58.1% for those of you scoring at home.)

Every year on this day I reflect upon the power of coming out. The fact that is both an intensely personal as well as very public experience, even if you are only 'out' to one person. I look back on these 25 years an think of the happy times (some of the wonderful times in intimate relationships) as well as the not so happy times (attempted bashings and the like).

I have been truly fortunate to come out not only when I did, but where, amongst wonderful and caring people who were sometimes taken aback, but always loving. I then think about the people, who for a myriad of reasons, can not come out, whether to themselves or to others. My heart breaks for them and I pray that they find comfort.

If you are out, celebrate that fact with me.
If you are straight, think warm and happy thoughts about your out friends.
If you are not out, or know someone who isn't, send them warmth that they
may find peace.

May there be a day when coming out is as natural and comforatble as getting older ;)